Magic Words

It's the little things that count. Remember what your "mama" said....always say "please and thank you".

Working with the kindergarteners this last year I was amazed at the courteousness they displayed. When asking for things, it was always followed by please. Ask any child "What is the magic word" and they will most likely say to you "please". Why is something that was so engrained in our early teachings from parents and teachers so quickly forgotten?

“Thank you.” It is highly under-rated. We teach our children to make that the first thing out of their mouths when someone gives them something or does something for them. We know it is important, but we can forget just how valuable it is as teenagers and as adults.

Children are taught the words, "please" and "thank you" very early in life. Yet by the time they reach adolescence, they seldom use them.

A simple skill, that can make a really big difference. It is really that simple….say Please and Thank you. But be prepared for what will happen. First, people will be shocked and you will get some funny looks. Second, people will smile and be nice to you. Third, your please and thank you will be passed on. Courtesy is contagious.

My husband’s, “Thank you,” when he finishes the dinner I prepare for him each night, motivates me to do it the next night too, and to do it well! My, “Thank you,” when he opens a door for me or brings me a glass of tea, lets him see I appreciate him as a gentleman.

Today, old-time courtesies help you stand out. As an individual or as a business it has become a competitive advantage. So few people express appreciation that remembering to do so can make all the difference! It also goes a long way toward forming the relationships that can turn into opportunities.

How often do you say ‘please and thank you’? There is a whole world out there in need of a kind word, a friendly face, a moment of your time. Are we becoming so rushed, busy and pressured as a society that we no longer have or take the time for these simple words? I hope not.

Why not start today?