Everyone has a story

You see a man at the grocery store yelling at the clerk. You may think he is this way because he was treated unfairly, maybe it is because of something in his past and that maybe it is not his fault. Maybe it is. Either way, there is a story. And because there is a story it is a chance to show grace and compassion.

You see a woman scream at her child for picking up a candy bar near the checkout. You may think she is this way because she is trying to teach her kids right from wrong, maybe she is short on time or maybe it is because she cannot afford the candy bar. Still, there is a story.

Think of someone you see casually each day but have never talked to. The waitress at the local coffee shop, the security guard or the person who eats lunch alone each day.

Even though we have never spoken to any of these people, it is human nature to make up a story in our mind about who they are, what kind of people they and what they are like.

We even do this for people we do not know very well.We are quick to judge on these stories we have created in our minds. What do you think would happen if we stopped listening to the stories as we think they are in our minds, but rather stopped and listened to the real story?

Everyone has a story to tell. We all learn from one another. We all learn from experience.Take some time to get the real story, of their experience.

Everyone wants to be heard and feel that what they have to say is meaningful to others. As you get older, you realize just how much more important these stories become. And how important it is just to be heard.

Take the opportunity to listen with open ears, open mind and an open heart to the stories of the people around you. It will greatly enrich your life and soul!

You will meet new friends, be humbled by the challenges that some people face, and be inspired and encouraged by the accomplishments they have achieved. Listen without making judgments and resist the urge to tell your own story. You will be giving a gift to everyone around you and will get some very special gifts in return.

Remember that everyone has a story and every story matters!

Bridge to Terabithia

BRIDGE TO TERABITHIA described as a fantasy/adventure story of friendship, family and the power of imagination.

We watched the movie last tonight and of course cried. Not only for the loss of the little girl but the realization of loosing ourselves as we get older. We don’t dream anymore…we just try to get through the day. Now I just have to read the book! Let my imagination run wild! Lol

Skyler had a rough night of sleep so I think the movie was too much for her. But CK was interested in the movie, even with his tears, he checked out the book today the library.

People are so quick to judge. I challenge you to think about that bully in your life. Even as adults we still deal with the bullies! Many are bullies because of their own insecurities and dishonesty with themselves…I know that describes my bully. Some are bullies because they are being bullied. There was an 8th grade girl in the movie, that was the bus bully. Later it was found she was a bully because she was bullied and beaten by her dad at home.

The two stars of the movie, a young boy and girl, lost themselves in their own made up world as an escape from the bullies and bad things happening to them it seemed at every turn.

I thought about Jennifer. She told her CK that when things get bad…write! No one can judge you in your thoughts or what you write for yourself. Or like the little boy in the story…sketch!